2008 Woodie Awards
Exploring Your Fantasies...
DONOVAN LINDER, OBSERVER STAFF WRITER
Issue date: 10/7/08 Section: Life & Leisure
By definition, fantasies are daydreams and imaginary visions. We all have them; it's just a matter of how to tap into yours and your partners..
Many people feel uncomfortable with fantasies, fearing they're somehow weird if they're turned on by things that are unacceptable to their partner.
However, fantasies are simply somewhere we can act out things we might never do in real life. Sexual fantasies are a useful way to enhance a relationship. Exploring your partner's fantasies can increase trust and intimacy. Find out what turns your partner on. Try exploring bookshops together for erotic books and art.
Although some couples have found sharing and acting their fantasies worthwhile, others have not. Keep in mind that fantasies are extremely personal and need to be handled with care.
Sharing fantasies can be liberating, but it can be risky. Talk to your partner first about the general theme, then approach with CAUTION. Just by thinking about how best to please your partner means that your partner will be thinking of how best to please you. The result will be a more sexually satisfying relationship.
If you don't believe me, visit websites like www.allsexguide.com for more information. Have fun and remember your mind is never in the gutter; it's just on your partner.
Many people feel uncomfortable with fantasies, fearing they're somehow weird if they're turned on by things that are unacceptable to their partner.
However, fantasies are simply somewhere we can act out things we might never do in real life. Sexual fantasies are a useful way to enhance a relationship. Exploring your partner's fantasies can increase trust and intimacy. Find out what turns your partner on. Try exploring bookshops together for erotic books and art.
Although some couples have found sharing and acting their fantasies worthwhile, others have not. Keep in mind that fantasies are extremely personal and need to be handled with care.
Sharing fantasies can be liberating, but it can be risky. Talk to your partner first about the general theme, then approach with CAUTION. Just by thinking about how best to please your partner means that your partner will be thinking of how best to please you. The result will be a more sexually satisfying relationship.
If you don't believe me, visit websites like www.allsexguide.com for more information. Have fun and remember your mind is never in the gutter; it's just on your partner.
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